Hogmanay -the eve of New Year’s Day; a present requested or given on this day.
A farmer’s wife, who was rather stingy with her whisky, was giving her shepherd a drink.
As she handed him his glass, she said it was extra good whisky, being fourteen years old.
“Weel, mistress,” said the shepherd regarding his glass sorrowfully, “It’s very small for its age.”
Thursday’s questions on Friday were:
1. Am I the only one who finds it hard to keep track of the days this week?
2. What was your most interesting Christmas present (not necessarily this year).
3. It’s vacances in French, vacanza in Italian, vacación in Spanish and haratei in Maori, what is it in English?
4. If you could choose anywhere in the world to have a summer holiday where would it be?
5. Have you had time to read this week and if so what?
Points for answers:
In the spirit of the season and because there were no wrong answers for four of the five questions, everyone gets an electronic bag of shortbread for Hogmanay.
(And yes thank you, Deborah, I’m having a wonderful week combining enough exercise to feel virtuous and sufficient reading to relax with fun with family and friends.)
Answers follow the break:
. . . Regrets of the dying might help you decide what to resolve to do and not do:
After working in palliative care Bronnie Ware came up with five things many people who were dying wished:
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
As Barking Up the Wrong Tree says: To them, these were regrets. For us, maybe the above can be a checklist of what not to do.
And for advice on how to make resolutions you’re more likely to keep, I read on a website I can no longer find * that it’s better to resolve to be better than to be good.
From memory, the theory behind this was that even a tiny, wee bit better is still an improvement and therefore something to celebrate whereas being good is more an absolute which is much harder to achieve.
* Don’t you hate it when that happens? Memo to self, resolve to keep record of useful websites so can find them again.
Artist Ralph Hotere has been appointed to the Order of New Zealand, the country’s top honour.
“I am very pleased to accept this honour and I was particularly moved by the letter that I received from the Prime Minister, the Rt Hon Mr John Key.
“He spoke of our nation . . . relying on citizens from all walks of life stepping forward, helping others, seeking new ways of doing things, and reaching for their dreams. He also spoke of enriching the lives of others. I am deeply moved,” Hotere said.
That captures exactly what the honours are for, recognising the people who step forward.
One of those is Malcolm Farry who has been awarded a Companion of the Order of Merit for his work as chair of the Carisbrook Stadium Trust and many years of service in other areas including chair of the fundraising committee for the Orokonui Ecosanctuary and:
. . . his decade as chairman of the Otago Youth Wellness Trust, from 1996 to 2006. The trust is a free, community-based service that supports 11- to 18-year-olds with social workers, mentoring, educational support and health services liaison and information.
The “wrap-around” service was one of the first to achieve a “high-trust” contract with the Government, heralding a new way of working with the community sector.
Max Smith has been awarded a Member of the New Zealand Order of Merit for services to rowing.
Smith, of Waipara, North Canterbury, was Ministry of Works project manager in Twizel, and pushed to retain the Mackenzie Country town and created Lake Ruataniwha at the completion of the Upper Waitaki power scheme.
It is not just tthe sport, but the town which owes so much to him. Twizel might well have died had it not been for Lake Ruataniwha.
Ian Taylor will be a Companion of The New Zealand Order of Merit (CNZM) for services to business and television.
Among others in the list announced today were:
Dr Ralph Allen, who led the work to establish the Orokonui Ecosanctuary has been awarded a Queens Service Medal for services to conservation, and Struan Munro who earned his QSM for service to local body affairs and the community.
Struan was a long-serving Waitaki District Councillor and has given years of service in community activities and farming in the Waitaki Valley.
Graham Henry has been knighted not just for coaching the All blacks to World Cup victory but for his contribution to the sport over many years.
The full list is here.
Quote of the day:
Principals and boards already have a mass of responsibilities so why do they also need to manage property portfolios that must, at some schools, be worth a fortune? It would not get schools out of the chore of fundraising, of course, but it would mean professional property managers could do what they do best, while the principals and boards focus on the role of teaching kids. Joanne Black discussing private-public partnerships in the Listener (not yet on-line).