The bereaved parents’ club is one none of us choose to join.
Tonight five of the six of us at dinner were unwilling members.
The statistics for the survival of marriages for couples who’ve lost children are depressing but all five of us are still married.
There are many reasons that marriages of couples who have lost children fail. But one factor the five us whose marriages have survived have in common is that we haven’t lost the good things we have to bitterness over what we lost.
Fresh from the therapeutic benefit of sharing our experiences this evening I’m grateful for that.