Barking Up the Wrong Tree reckons good romantic and working relationships require 5 positive interactions to every negative one.
He’s come across with a refinement on that in Ed Diener’s book Happiness: Unlocking the Mysteries of Psychological Wealth:
chart that breaks down the optimal ratios for other relationships:
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Hmmm… what about remarks from one’s mother-in-law?
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Quite, Deborah – and also to and from one’s father-in-law.
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